"Just look for the pink awning"

 

3431 Telegraph Rd

 

Ventura, CA 93003

     


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     Monday - Saturday

           11  to  7 

 

 

 

 

 

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What's New, and the Diva Blogs On...

Mon

13

Jun

2016

A G-spot vibe with a new twist.

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Wed

12

Nov

2014

Still Sexy... A Full Decade of Pleasure

Owner, Beth atDiva the passion boutique in Ventura CA
Beth, Diva "the passion boutique" Ventura, CA

   Yes, you read that right! For a decade I have been selecting what I believe to be the BEST in Vibrators, Sex Toys, Personal Lubricants, and Sexy Lingerie for  Diva "the passion boutique".  

                  

   Through it all, I have learned a great deal about what my customers want in pleasure. They want MORE. More pleasure than you can shake a stick at.

 

  They want their proverbial cake, a large slice please, and they want to eat it too. Male or Female, single or solitary, coupled or otherwise...that special drive is there.

 

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Wed

30

Jul

2014

Slippery Surfaces Ahead: PART 2

Maximus Lubricant
Thicker and Slicker, Maximus!

   In Part1 of Slippery Surfaces Ahead, I went into some details about Water Based, Silicone, and Hybrid Personal Lubricants. Here, I will get down to the nitty gritty on Flavors, Warming, Anal, and Masturbation formulas.

   Yeah, just when you think you have it all figured out; manufacturers come up with even more ways to keep things slick and exciting in the bedroom. So, here is a little intro to what I call, speciality lubes.

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Tue

22

Jul

2014

CAUTION! Slippery Surfaces Ahead: PART 1

Slippery When Wet
Get Slippery!

 

 You've Got Questions, this post has ANSWERS

 

   There are lots of personal  lubricants on the market. So many varieties in fact, that choosing a lube can be overwhelming, and ultimately disappointing. Understanding the differences in types and brands is the key...So lets clear some things up here!

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Wed

16

Jul

2014

The Diva Menopause Survival Guide...

mature romantic couple
Taking Care of Your own Physical, Sexual and Sensual Health is Key, During Perimenopause and Beyond!

   OR, What I learned from reading countless articles,

blogs and webzines, and by listening to my customers relate their very personal stories and experiences. This guide is not intended to treat or cure any illness, or medical condition. AND as always if you have any concerns please consult your Doctor, Medical Professional, or Health Care Provider!

   Perimenopause, or menopausal transition, often starts with irregular periods, but symptoms may also include hot flashes, trouble sleeping, vaginal dryness, itchy skin, mood swings, lowered sexual libido and more. All caused by hormonal changes and surges. 

  

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Mon

14

Jul

2014

Two for the Price of One: 2 Vibrators and 2 Reviews

Ina 2 vibrator by Lelo
In stock Now at Diva in Ventura

 

You got all excited didn't you?

 

   When you saw that headline; Two for the Price of One. Well, so did I...but for a very different reason. Lelo has been on a roll, putting out new versions of their already popular, super high quality vibrators. Read on if you want the latest on some of the best vibes on the market.

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Mon

24

Feb

2014

Longer Passion, Lasting Pleasure...


I was recently interviewed on the topic of keeping passion alive in a long term relationship... 

The interview was fairly brief, and afterwards I started thinking more seriously about what really keeps us connected, both sensually and sexually. As the owner of Diva, I have nearly a decade of talking with women and couples about pleasure, passion, and desire under my belt. 

Women come to me with real life stories about their wants, needs, and concerns. Keeping the home fires burning (so to speak) is a frequent topic of discussion. Entire books have been written on the subject, but simple reminders and solutions often work best:

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Wed

16

Oct

2013

Form2 by Jimmyjane: Sensation in Stereo/ OR, How I learned to stop worrying and love "designer" vibrators

FORM 2  by JIMMYJANE
FORM 2 by JIMMYJANE

 


     A funny thing happened on my way to a very intense orgasm. I fell in love with a brand.  A brand that I had sworn off.  Sworn off for being too expensive (or so I thought), too highbrow (after all, the sales rep wore a suit, and spoke of SEX TOYS as if they were works of modern art), and too zealous in its quest for design driven, euro-snob perfection. 

     I don't even know how it happened exactly, but I must have let my guard down after reading one too many 5 star reviews of the JIMMYJANE FORM 2.  Before I knew what hit me, the "Brown Truck"  was delivering a shipment of JIMMYJANE, and I was just done for.

    

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Mon

19

Aug

2013

It Just Keeps on Humming...

Blue Venus Vibrator
Blue Venus "Hummer" Vibe


   This odd looking vibrator would seem like an unlikely customer favorite, but indeed it is a Diva Best Seller! I have always thought it was shaped rather like the "Grim Reaper" in silhouette. I guess this is appropriate when considering the French term for orgasm, la petite mort, or "little death". In its original color, a rather pearly white, it is even more ghost like in appearance. 

 

   The Blue Venus is a gyrating vibrator, aka "Hummer" that uses an off center motor to create a humming, sometimes "thudding" vibration that is very different from typical high pitched, fuzzy or buzzing vibes. I have had more than one customer compare this toys highest setting to the lowest setting of their beloved (POWERFUL) Hitachi Wand...which, if you are familiar, is an electric plug in model famous for its intense, sometimes teeth-chattering vibrations. So, if you prefer deep, rumbley vibrations and a firm vibe, the Blue Venus may be for you.

  

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Fri

19

Jul

2013

Yes Virginia, there is a "G Spot"

The G Spot Is Real
Finding the G Spot! YES, It's REAL

   Nearly every day, a customer will approach me with questions concerning the G Spot: 

Is it REAL? Is female ejaculation real? OR, with statements like, "I don't have one!" or "Mine must be lost...I've been trying to find it for years..." OR, my favorite, "I must have been born without one."

 

   Well, ladies and gentleman, my answers is always the same: YES, G Spots are real, and NO, it is not "lost"! Your G Spot is right where you left it, embedded in your urethral sponge. Female ejaculation is also real, though not every woman will master this ability.

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Thu

18

Jul

2013

Keep it "covered" Lovers!

ONE condoms
Condoms are Necessary for Safer Sex!

   I recently had a new customer stop in, and he asked about condoms. I suggested ONE"s as they are thinner, pre-lubricated and low-odor...as well as stronger than most condoms.

 

He read the package carefully to see if they contained spermicide..."you know, because I don't want to get HIV."

 

   This gentleman was under the impression that spermicides helped prevent HIV.

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Wed

17

Jul

2013

Lube On!

sexy laboratory
Lube Testing at the Diva Lab :)

    For at least 10 years, we have been warned (by sex educators, sex toy bloggers, and manufacturers,) not to use silicone lubes with silicone toys. The simple explanation was that silicone toys and lubes don't play well together; silicone lubes might degrade silicone toys over time. The resulting gummy texture was not pleasant, AND there would be no way to "restore" your toy or vibrator.

   However, many of my customers LOVE their silicone lubricants, and LOVE their silicone toys...

   SO, in the interest of the greater good, I have been doing some lube and toy testing.

   Several of the toys we carry at Diva, from Fun FactoryLeloTantus and We-Vibe were the subjects. 

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